Lessons in life...well, from me. lol.

Be prepared....this is gonna be hella random. Thoughts and stuff that I feel need to be said...not directed at anyone in particular....just notes from my mind. And know, that I don't mean to offend (in case I do)....just my opinions.

People tend to fall in love with someone they can't have or that don't love them back, and push away the ones that actually do want them...why?

Everything happens for a reason, every action and reaction has a purpose, have the patience to find out what that reason is...

Sometimes people "meddle" because they care. Scratch that...majority of the time, people meddle because they care.

Do not, I repeat, DO NOT stay together for the kids...it quite possibly could end up being way worse than divorce. We live in a time now that divorce is so common, kids will be able to adapt better and have far too many peers that they can bond with. Maybe I'm biased because my parents split and my parents are way better seperate, and not married. lol. Besides what does it model for your kids if you're in a unloving, non-functioning relationship?  You want better than that for your children, don't you? I know I do (when/if I have any). Now, I know there are people out there that don't believe in divorce and that want to be married only once, but just know....other than people that feel the same, no one will judge you or think less of you. I've seen and have known too many people and kids from my work who's ideals of love and relationships are so altered that they make the same if not worse mistakes in their love lives. And just because it seems like "the right thing to do" doesn't make it so.

Have high standards...know what you want and be willing to wait until it comes.

Don't be afraid to be alone (single). It won't kill you. I promise! I have too many friends that get in these HORRIBLE relationships for the only purpose of being in a relationship. Maybe my last one was such a doozy that I just am hip to the game now...I'd rather be alone than deal with a bad boyfriend. And there IS such a thing as an emotionally abusive relationship....be smart enough to get yourself out.

Embrace who you really are....cause in the end, you're always going to be your own best friend, or you should be. Be happy in your skin.

Surround yourself with people that make your life good. Extract those who cause stress and unnecessary drama.

Make sure you let people know what they mean to you...

Do things that will make you happy. I'm not saying to be selfish and only care about yourself...but on occasion, it's good to do things just for you. Treat yourself.

Ok, enough randomness....I had intentions earlier today of blogging about life and what's been going on...but this seemed better only because I'm not 100% sure who reads this. LOL.

Much <3!