Do you believe in signs?

So today at work we had the Rachel's Challenge assembly for our students. Ever seen it? It's powerful stuff. Here's a short video about the overall purpose of it.




So, in the middle of it...I'm standing in the back of the auditorium listening to this guy talk about being kind and helping those around us, being compassionate to others, telling Rachel's story and all the symbols and premonitions she had in her journals and had mentioned to multiple family and friends about dying young and impacting the world, and forgiving those around us who may have hurt us and something catches my eye. I bend down before the end of the assembly and pick up a pin...and this is what it was

Now, it may seem crazy, but I just thought it was odd to find that, of all things, during the middle of this touching and moving assembly. And as the day wore on, it really made me wonder what it meant. Is it a sign that I need to have more hope? Have I become cynical and lost faith in the person I am? Mom's been encouraging me to go back to Church, is it a sign that I need to recommit to my faith?  It could just be a pin that I happened to come across and that's it. But at the moment it just seemed more meaningful than that. And I believe that everything happens for a reason *see previous blog* lol.

I'm curious to know what you think...because different takes could help to explain it more.

Ok, no mas.

Much love.

TIme to play catch up...

So I've been on a bit of a hiatus. Mainly because I've been sickly and just overall run down. It sucks getting old. (kidding) I work with teenagers and they think it's funny to tell me how old I am. Was even told I had wrinkles yesterday...that kid made my hit list. I kid. It's about that yearly time when flus and colds are rampant and I get either hella bad allergies or strep throat. This time, thus far, I just got the allergies. I seemed to have fought off strep cause up until a few days ago my right tonsil was about the size of a ping pong ball....well, felt like it. Haven't been able to sleep very well without the aid of some sort of night time remedy. Which I hate...I like my sleep all natural.

Alright, so what's been going on with me, you ask? Let's see...

I've had a couple of things change in my personal life...it's hard when things change. You get used to talking to someone every day or all the time and then you decide that you're on two different pages and then it's like *poof* I also believe that a friendship is on it's way out the door. It sucks, but it's difficult to be friends with someone that can't be friends with you. Annnnnnnnnnd that's all I'm gonna say about that. Sorry to go Forrest Gump on ya.

I cut my hair...about 3-4 inches. It went from my bra line to a little past my shoulders. It took me about a year to get it to where it was....but there just came a day where I was at work and I had just had enough and wanted a change....so I went to my little girl, and got her to chop it off.

Went from about this...

To this:

Let's see, what else? Ooooo!!! I know. One of my best friends, Miranda, got hitched a year ago and moved to North Carolina....we found out this week she's moving back to TEJAS!!! Yayay!!!!! She'll be far away still...but not near as far as NC. And when I go home to see my mom, she'll be much closer! Whoo!

Went and hung out with some of my favorite ladies last weekend, and I'm gonna get to see some of them again this weekend hopefully! We went to dinner and ended up closing the place down. It was a blast. Made me miss college and simpler times. Growing up is overrated.

I need to start seriously looking for a job that pays more. I like my job and I love the kids I work with...it's just getting harder and harder to live on the little I bring home. Dang non-profits. Dang degree I can't do jack with. Someone should have warned me. LOL. But, of course, if I had found my rich spouse by now, it wouldn't be an issue. LMAO kidding. Or am I?

I also need to figure out what I'm going to grad school for and how the heck I'm going to pay for it...some things don't require the GRE but most do....so I need to figure it out so that I can determine whether or not I even need to take the dang test.

I'm so ready for fall...ready for the cool air, sweaters, hoodies and for football to start getting real intense. My team won this week! Booyah!

And on that, I'll close...hope you have a great rest of the week and weekend, and when something more exciting happens, I'll let you know.

Much <3!!!

P.S. Goooooooooooooo Colts!!!

Lessons in life...well, from me. lol.

Be prepared....this is gonna be hella random. Thoughts and stuff that I feel need to be said...not directed at anyone in particular....just notes from my mind. And know, that I don't mean to offend (in case I do)....just my opinions.

People tend to fall in love with someone they can't have or that don't love them back, and push away the ones that actually do want them...why?

Everything happens for a reason, every action and reaction has a purpose, have the patience to find out what that reason is...

Sometimes people "meddle" because they care. Scratch that...majority of the time, people meddle because they care.

Do not, I repeat, DO NOT stay together for the kids...it quite possibly could end up being way worse than divorce. We live in a time now that divorce is so common, kids will be able to adapt better and have far too many peers that they can bond with. Maybe I'm biased because my parents split and my parents are way better seperate, and not married. lol. Besides what does it model for your kids if you're in a unloving, non-functioning relationship?  You want better than that for your children, don't you? I know I do (when/if I have any). Now, I know there are people out there that don't believe in divorce and that want to be married only once, but just know....other than people that feel the same, no one will judge you or think less of you. I've seen and have known too many people and kids from my work who's ideals of love and relationships are so altered that they make the same if not worse mistakes in their love lives. And just because it seems like "the right thing to do" doesn't make it so.

Have high standards...know what you want and be willing to wait until it comes.

Don't be afraid to be alone (single). It won't kill you. I promise! I have too many friends that get in these HORRIBLE relationships for the only purpose of being in a relationship. Maybe my last one was such a doozy that I just am hip to the game now...I'd rather be alone than deal with a bad boyfriend. And there IS such a thing as an emotionally abusive relationship....be smart enough to get yourself out.

Embrace who you really are....cause in the end, you're always going to be your own best friend, or you should be. Be happy in your skin.

Surround yourself with people that make your life good. Extract those who cause stress and unnecessary drama.

Make sure you let people know what they mean to you...

Do things that will make you happy. I'm not saying to be selfish and only care about yourself...but on occasion, it's good to do things just for you. Treat yourself.

Ok, enough randomness....I had intentions earlier today of blogging about life and what's been going on...but this seemed better only because I'm not 100% sure who reads this. LOL.

Much <3!